Rev. Brady Boyd |
One
hundred days after Rev. Boyd became their minister, another tragedy struck the
church. On the afternoon of Sunday, December 9, 2007, a gunman drove onto the
campus of the church spewing bullets and mayhem inside and outside the church.
When he died inside the church that afternoon, the man had killed two teenage
girls and injured several others.
Fear No Evil by Rev. Brady Boyd |
One
chapter caught my eye in particular as pertains to this blog. Keeping the
Lampstand Lit holds a section on four Joy Robbers.
1. Errant Expectations
Rev. Boyd points out that “healing from life’s heartbreaking events
always takes longer than I think.” He notes that impatience with the process
keeps us from being kind to ourselves as we heal. He says, “To have expected
out community of faith to get over the shooting quickly was a sure way to rob
us of our joy. Instead, we had to leave room for healing even as we pursued the
joy that was ours to reclaim. We had to allow folks to heal at their own pace.”
2. Isolation and Insulation
Rev. Boyd noted that after the tragedy, people wanted to isolate
themselves from others and insulate themselves from the world at large. He
experienced this himself for awhile. He says, “Fortunately, God would show me
that by inviting others into my circumstances, I’d save myself boatloads of
pain. By refusing to isolate and insulate over the long haul,” we can be far
healthier in the end.
3. Fatigue
As the church ran headlong into storm after storm as it reached for
recovery, exhaustion set in. Boyd says, “It pays bigger dividends to adopt a
strategy of rest instead of trying to power your way through the pain.” As he
counsels people who are experiencing losses (jobs, relationships, health, etc.)
he tells them, “Unless you find a way to get rest during this ordeal, the pain
will do you in.”
4. A Windshield that has Become Dangerously Small
There’s a reason why car manufacturers use a small rearview mirror and a
big windshield. We are supposed to focus on what is in front of us rather than
what we have just passed. According to Boyd, “Whenever we allow the
backward-looking, past-oriented, rearview mirror images to eclipse the
magnificent work being accomplished before us and all around us, we miss real
blessings that God is trying to pass our way. What’s more, we give the enemy of
our souls a foothold as he works to deflate our hearts.”
I’d recommend this book and its gems to
anyone who is reaching out to restore the joy in their lives or anyone who
knows someone who is. It’s a great read.
Going out with joy today-
Cathy
Excellent job my friend! Blessings on your week.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Mary Jane! Looking forward to seeing you next week.
DeleteGotta' put this one on my "to read" list. Thanks for sharing Cathy!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Deb! You won't regret the time spent reading this book. My copy looks battle-worn with all the markings, stars, underlining and hi-lites. Lots of gems in this one, at least for me there was. Let me know what you thought once you read it.
DeleteGreat book review, Cathy. It makes me want to get a copy!
ReplyDeleteOnce your life settles down after the wedding, I'd recommend you buy this book and read it. You will gain many shareable nuggets you can use in the future to encourage others. Blessings!
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