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Thursday, June 27, 2013

Meet Kimberly Rae, Author


My friend, author Kimberly Rae, has Addison’s disease, hypoglycemia, asthma and a cyst on her brain. She knows what it is like to grow tired of dependence on medication, feel guilty over needing help, and to be frustrated over fielding the frequent comment, “But you don’t look sick!” 

Her new book, Sick & Tired: Empathy, Encouragement, and Practical Help for those Suffering with Chronic Health Problems, along with its companion, Laughter for the Sick & Tired, are for the nearly 1 in 2 people in America who live with chronic illness.

When I asked why she wrote Sick and Tired, Kimberly responded, "After having health problems for over 15 years, I wanted a book that was funny, empathetic, encouraging, and a reminder that God loved me and had a purpose for me despite my limitations and pain. I couldn’t find that book, so I wrote it! I want others to read my book as a safe place where they feel believed, understood, and where they find a few reasons to smile!"
 
To get you started, Kimberly is giving my readers a free excerpt from Sick and Tired:

Sick & Tired: Empathy, Encouragement, and
Practical Help for those Suffering with Chronic Health Problems 

Be careful about reading health books. You may die of a misprint. Mark Twain

            Sometimes I want to slap a sticky note on my forehead that says, “I am sick. No, I don’t look sick at this moment. But I am not faking having a disease just because I’m not in a wheelchair, and I am not a freak.”

            Now, I am aware walking around with a note like that on my head would actually put me in the freak category. Not to mention all those words would only fit on a Post-It note if I wrote it very, very small, and then people would have to get really close to me to read it, and that might just put me over the edge. I’m really into my personal space.

            The thing is, I don’t like talking about having chronic health problems that interfere with my life. I don’t like the way people look down, over, and around me when they realize I have a chronic illness. Or worse yet, the suspicious way their eyes narrow when they decide it’s all in my head, or I’m a hypochondriac.

            Why does it bother me to tell people I have health problems? Doesn’t everybody at some point? I suppose that’s the crux right there. For most people, the difference is in the “some point” part. They have a problem. They go to the doctor. Doctor fixes it. Life moves on. It was a small, annoying inconvenience.

            For me, and likely for you since you’re reading this, your problem is not so temporary. You’ve got it for life, or until science finds a cure, which for some diseases is as likely as winning the lottery when you haven’t even bought a ticket. So we make people nervous.

            Instead, Americans spend billions trying to avoid anything that even smells like sickness. Our country has enough pills, vitamins, and herbal remedies to make you sick even if you started out healthy, or at least to make your urine turn neon yellow—which is an interesting phenomenon—though likely not worth all the money it took to make it happen.

            I would like to trade in my health problems and be well again. I sometimes think that would be getting my life back. But the truth is, this is my life, and as I have come to (almost) accept that fact and make the best of it, I think there’s hope for me.

            Maybe not to cease being a freak to some, but to cease seeing myself as a victim, as a traumatic case, or even as a lesser being because of my illness.

            That being the goal, maybe I’ll remove the hypothetical Post-It note from my forehead and put it in my back pocket, to be removed periodically and waved in people’s faces only when I’m having a tough day.

            It’s a start anyway. 

Check out Sick & Tired today at www.Amazon.com  Also look for its companion book, Laughter for the Sick & Tired, on Amazon or on Kimberly’s website, www.kimberlyrae.com

10 comments:

  1. Sounds like two great books to have here. Ihanks Cathy. God bless you Kimberly Rae. Definatly sharing this with my friends.

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    1. Good morning, Mary! Thanks for visiting and for sharing the info about Kimberly's book with friends. I've ordered a couple of copies and can't wait to share one with a loved one who has a chronic condition. Blessings!

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  2. I understand how Kimberly feels. I am among the many who have an 'invisible' illness. I find there are many who deal with Fibro, and at least one or two forms of arthritis as I do. Part of my experience could be because of the "age thing."

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    1. So sorry to hear about your illnesses, Sweet Lady. I know what you mean about that "age thing." It gets us all sooner or later in some way or another. Be blessed today!

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  3. Sounds like a good book, one I'll have to look into and let a new friend know about. Having an invisible illness, which, for me, often has invisible effects is challenging. (that's putting it mildly, of course.) JUst met someone last week who may benefit from it too. I'll have to let her know about it.

    Thanks for writing it, Kimberly

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    1. This book is good for lots of people I know. I ordered two copies but may have to reorder as I think of people who might benefit from it. Thanks for stopping by Ellen. Praying blessings over you!

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  4. As I read this post, I thought of a couple of people I know who might enjoy and be encouraged by Kimberly's books. Road trip to the book store in order soon.

    Happy birthday to Kimberly. She shares the day with my mother who has been gone for nearly fifteen years now. Hope her family made a large celebration.

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    1. Any excuse for a road trip is a good one, but this one will be a real encouragement to your friends. Have fun blessing them!

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  5. Loved this post, Cathy! I'd love to read Kimberly's book. Even those without a chronic illness may glean ways to encourage those who do.

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    1. Thanks, Sally! I can't wait to get my copy and dig in. I know several people with "invisible" illnesses. I hope I glean something that will help tem or help me understands their needs. Blessings!

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